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Saving is hard
I don’t care what the money experts say
When I try to put money away for the future
my brain’s not happy
It wants the dopamine hit
The thing
The fun
The right now
Not some mysterious future moment where I’ll be glad I saved
It’s like choosing steamed broccoli over hot chips
Noble
But deeply disappointing
And yet
somehow
I’ve started saving
I’m not naturally disciplined
I’m not rich
And I definitely don’t get high from putting money in an account called “Rainy Day Fund”
So how did I manage to build actual savings
without it feeling like punishment
Let me show you
You vs you is a tough match
Present you wants shoes
Future you wants peace of mind
Guess who wins most of the time
Here’s the deal
Most saving advice isn’t built for normal people
It’s built for robots who don’t flinch when they say no to takeaway
or who enjoy watching their budget spreadsheet more than Netflix
That’s not me
Probably not you either
I used to start strong
Transfer a chunk to savings
Feel good for a few days
Then something would pop up
An “emergency”
Or an “I deserve this” moment
Savings wiped
Again
Sound familiar
It’s not a willpower problem
It’s a wiring problem
Because your brain doesn’t reward you for not buying something
There’s no high
No buzz
No confetti
Just… nothing
So how do you save when your brain is screaming for pleasure right now
You trick it
I didn’t become a savings ninja overnight
I just found little ways to make saving feel less like sacrifice
And more like something I might want to do again
I love visuals, everything is much clearer for me.
I drew a simple savings tracker
Just a little doodle of a jar
And every time I added money
I coloured in part of the jar
It sounds childish
But something about seeing it fill up made me weirdly happy
It turned saving into a game
And games are fun
Budgets aren’t
Try this:
Draw something
A jar
A road
A ladder
Stick it to your wall
Colour it in every time you add money
You’ll want to keep going
Here’s the rules
If I walk away from an impulse buy
Half the amount goes to savings
The other half I can spend later on something better
Example
Almost spent 30 bucks on random takeaway
Said no
Put 15 into savings
Used the other 15 a week later on something I actually enjoyed
This works because I don’t feel deprived
I still get the joy
Just not all at once
I hate the idea of moving money manually
It feels like effort
So I got an app that does it for me
There are loads
I used one that rounds up my purchases
Another one just moved a few cents a day into savings without asking me
At first I thought
This is pointless
Then after a few months I looked
And it had added up
Quietly
Without stress
Without guilt
If you hate saving
Automate it
Tiny amounts
Often
You won’t even feel it happening
Until you do
“Emergency Fund” makes me think of broken boilers and dental work
So I changed it
Now I’ve got
“Summer Escape”
“Freedom Fund”
“Random Fun Money”
Guess which ones I want to add to
Names matter
Your brain wants the good stuff
Give it a reason to care
Every time I hit a mini milestone
I gave myself something small
Hit 500
Coffee and a pastry
Hit 1000
Movie night with snacks I didn’t share
It’s not about spending the savings
It’s about recognising the win
Because if saving always feels like a punishment
You’ll stop doing it
Celebrate it
Even a little
And your brain will start to link saving with pleasure
That’s when things really change
Because it’s human
You’re not trying to override your brain
You’re working with it
You’re still getting your dopamine
Just not from another impulse buy you’ll regret
You’re building momentum
You’re sneaking wins into your week
And most importantly
You’re proving to yourself that saving doesn’t have to suck
It can even feel good.